Was it good for you? Part II

fab’s 2012 Gay Sex Survey results are in and they are, once again, fascinating and fun. This is a snapshot of the sex lives of gay men today, carefully compiled by a crack team of sex experts and fab writers: Brian Bantugan, Michael Lyons, Drew Rowsomeand Eduardo Sabate. Enjoy.
Illustrations by Jordi Santo

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Like a virgin (again)
 
Respondents — so far — have had an average of 31 to 50 sexual partners. If it’s true, as the majority believes, that men become studs after having 10 sexual partners, most of us are. Respondents claim that a gay man becomes a slut only after he’s had sex with more than 10,000 men, which can be accomplished by having sex with at least one guy a day for about 27 years. Only about 1% have managed it.
 
We're all sluts! * Come on — sex positive, please. Unless you are reclaiming this word, then you are a slut the moment you start fucking. * The number of partners you had sex with does not define you. * Stud/slut is more about attitude than anything else. * I thought only women were sluts and a man became a stud only by fucking many women. * No such thing as a slut or a stud in my dictionary. Sex is a sport. Do it safely and enjoy. * Numbers are approximate. * I think a person has the right to sleep with however many other people they'd like without being called a slut. And I find the term "stud" hilarious. * I like to sample from a large buffet of men, Many of whom naturally progressed from fuck-buddies to friends with benefits. * I don't keep track of the number, but I do get tested regularly. *  It may be more, but I’ve sucked a lot of cocks. * Too many to count. * I am guessing; I lost count after 100. * I'm proud of being a cock-slut bitch.

The ties that bind
 
While most are in monogamous relationships (31%), single (32%) or single and promiscuous (19%), about 16% are sailing into open relationship waters, with approximately 3% trying polyamory.
 
I love to love. * We are escorts but monogamous with each other. * I'm currently dating a man where we're negotiating open status, but we also have a web of fuck-buddies, friends with benefits, lovers, etc. * It's complicated. I would say my relationship is somewhere in between monogamous and open. We can't do things outside of the relationship, but we both know we do it and it is just how it is. We don't talk about it. * Married bi guy with wife not knowing how many guys I fuck. * Married 36 years and with a boyfriend of 15 years. * Single and love it. * If you're not promiscuous when you're single, what is the point? * If you are faithful to one person, you are unfaithful to everyone else!
 
Almost 80% have, at some point, been half of a monogamous couple; slightly more have considered themselves single and promiscuous at some point. About 50% have been half of an open relationship.
 
It's weird, but I've been much more promiscuous with my boyfriend than when I was single. * Also master/slave, daddy/boy. * I date women but have sex with men, t-girls and FTMs. * I've always wanted to try polyamory. * I'd love to be part of a polyamorous relationship, but it's hard enough to get one man. How do you get multiple men? *
 
A little more than half of all respondents would prefer to be part of an open relationship, though significantly more than that aren’t really interested in polyamory. The majority wish to be in a monogamous relationship, although 39% prefer to be single, with 47% wanting to be single and promiscuous.
 
 Monogamous, but with the option of openness if we felt the desire to go there. * You need a "maybe" circle. All my Mr Rights have cheated, so I really don't believe men are monogamous. I do know I'd rather not be single and a prude — promiscuous is much more fun. * Promiscuous — I’m not really liking that word. * Proud slut. * Having a fuck-buddy is good; a different guy every night is not. * I enjoy being single but would happily trade that to be part of a relationship — ideally an open one. * Love being a bi male in a wild relationship. * I've sown my wild oats and prefer to concentrate my energy on one person, as Pollyanna as it may sound.

Critical criteria
 
Upping the “aww” factor, things like companionship, honesty and a sense of humour are crucial when respondents are looking for relationships, while good looks, intelligence, sexual heat and a warm smile are also important. Finally, let it not go unnoticed that, for a majority of people, a big cock and a tight ass are a definite bonus.
 
The person should have great style and be neither a vegetarian nor a vegan. * Size 12 feet. * Crucial: nice feet. * Capacity, skill and commitment to communication, as well as respect, maturity, being reliable/responsible.* Circumcised is crucial. * A big cock is not desirable — smaller is better. * Who cares about a tight ass when you are a bottom?* Hairy and muscular. *Tick all the boxes you like. When you fall in love none of them matter.* And the ability to string together a coherent sentence.
 
Hookups are an entirely different story. Sexual heat gets priority as the most crucial factor in this category. Respondents believe honesty is important in a hookup, but even more so are good looks. Bonuses in a good hookup are companionship and intelligence, but also a big cock, a tight ass and kinkiness. Several respondents noted that “hairy and muscular” was important for both relationships and hookups.
 
Hairy and muscular. * I love to look somebody in the eye and shake their hand. * Availability counts most. * This is sex for sex — no intended relationship. * Different standards with a hookup — sexual and more superficial. * Who cares about intelligence or romance? I just want to get fucked.

Making it last
 
The average duration of most respondents’ long-term monogamous relationships was about two years, with a little more than 5% saying they have been in relationships for more than 25 years. Discouragingly, most respondents admit their longest open relationships lasted a day, although 4% have experienced open relationships that lasted more than 25 years.
 
Monogamy is for boring people in their 80s. As long as we can get it up, hubby and I venture out and share our finds. * I don’t have ongoing relationships with men ever. Both were with women. Sex with men is one-night stands, mostly. * I learned in the gay scene at 17 that all the dudes are going to cheat on me, so I left my short monogamous stage and figured I would be happier if I joined the crowd instead of looking like an idiot. * Haven't had one. * The relationship began as a monogamous relationship and grew into an open one that is still ongoing. * Same relationship, but rules changed (rather, I changed them but didn't initially tell). * Above refers to an open relationship that transitioned into a monogamous relationship. * I would not knowingly tolerate an open relationship. * 41 years and still going strong. * Gay and married for 25 years in an open relationship. * Now married, though it’s an open relationship. We’ve been together for 27 years.
 
There seem to be three categories of respondents who have made relationships last: those in relationships based on honesty, openness and love; those who have fantastic sex; and those who feel obligated or have a sense of commitment for various reasons, such as kids or marriage. Communication plays a big role, and a large number were friends with their partners before becoming involved.
 
Honesty and self-deprecating humour. * Trust, love, compromise and respect. Really loving each other and a willingness to compromise. * More than just a sexual connection. * Similar interests and political views. * Companionship, helping each other through life's hardships. * Love, trust and friendship. Loved by family and have similar likes and dislikes. Same religion. * Our similarities in music taste, age, the amount of fun we had together, and just overall chemistry. * Good times together, openness. * Honesty, soulmates, respect, love, sex, attraction, loyalty, friendship. * We were best friends before we got into the relationship. * Respecting each other and complying with the requirements of being in a monogamous relationship. Being open about temptations and mistakes. Getting over the small stuff. * The kindness of his thoughts and words. * We were young and really enjoyed each other’s company. * The goodness of fit initially, followed by familiarity. * Honesty and trust. And the ability to constantly make each other laugh. * Humour and taking it day by day. * Common interests, a wicked sense of humour and a slammin' ass. * Honesty, caring for each other and no attempt to lock the partner away (free to play). * Ability to risk, honesty, patience, respect and accept changes. * In the monogamous relationship, it was the sexual heat. In the open relationship, it was the companionship. * Trust, honesty and an active sex life. * Our daily sex life. * Sex every day of the week. * Sense of humour, lots of talks, and the possibility of fucking other dudes and having the chance to have boyfriends outside of my primary relationship. * He is just a great person and is highly sexed, like me. We even have threesomes to add spice, and it has lasted 27 years this year. * Patience, honesty and his big cock. * Being horny for each other. * Honesty and fear of AIDS. * Similar interests, good sex, ability to have intellectual conversation, mutual codependency, drug use. * Me putting in hard work. * Hah — probably the fact that it was long distance (Toronto to Montreal). It was the first real relationship for both of us. I hate quitting. * Stubbornness and pretense. * In the beginning, it was compatibility, but we both changed with age, and it eventually became that we were both just afraid of not being in the relationship anymore. * Turning a blind eye. * Just a sense of humour, fun. Then it went downhill as it got serious. * Bitter answer: not knowing he was cheating for the last year or so. * I didn’t know it was an open relationship. * I was insecure. So I never thought I could do better. Then he cheated on me, so I left him. * As bad as this sounds, lack of options at the time. * Dreading the breakup. * Immaturity and ignorance — didn't know there would be someone better out there. I put up with a lot of abuse. * Not wanting to be alone. * Fear of the unknown and self-doubt. * Insanity. * Money. Which I had. * Me wearing nylons and heels. * He was a horny dad. * We enjoy each other’s company. And he has size-12 feet. * Honesty and communication. That and he's a hot, piggy top. * I've never had a boyfriend. * Commitment and children. * Faithful to my marriage vows, working at it. * It was all very organic, didn't seem forced, our relationship matured so easily. * Lots of good dates and spending time getting to know one another. * The ability to enjoy a lot of time together and to have private space as well. * We were friends first for nine years. * Honesty and a long friendship before becoming romantically involved. * Just being honest, open and generally batshit crazy about one another. * Just love the damn guy — he makes me feel comfortable and happy, and I guess I do the same for him. * Still working on that — I'll have to get back to you.
 
Respondents’ relationships didn’t work out for a variety of reasons: cheating, incompatibility, growing apart, death, coming out of or going back into the closet, substance abuse, relationship abuse, relocation and more. Relationships are complicated — and so is ending them.
 
Reality. * I grew tired of him. * Drifted apart. * Cheating and lying. * Dishonesty, need for monogamy, selfishness. * Sketchy actions and lying. Being deceitful will get you nowhere. With me, anyways. * Still in that relationship. It would end if my partner didn't allow me to connect with other dudes. * HIV, lack of interest, incompatibility. * His maturity level, money, his ego and his distaste with my first attempt at drag. * Realizing that we truly wanted different things in the future, and it was better to end things before either of us got even more hurt. Two years later we're still very close friends. * Life goes in different directions, especially when you make detailed plans at such a young age that you both are no longer able to follow. * He was a monkey. * Cancer/death. * Demise of partner. * Still in one of them; with the other one the boy thought he was straight. * He decided to try women. * She caught me with a dildo in my ass. * Still going. She doesn't know I like to suck cocks once in a while — like every other day. * She did not take well to my love of cock. * She was a bitch. * Kids were old enough for me to come out. * I discovered man-sex. * Him. To this day, he has never told me why. Even though we are somewhat friends. * Hasn't ended yet. However, a different attitude towards sex, religion and money, in that order, is deteriorating the relationship. * No sexual drive and not open to being with other people — men or women. * Unfortunately, different goals, and he wasn't as out as me, which always kept getting in the way. * Not wanting to be outed at school. * Fell out of love. * General unhappiness. * Laziness on their part. * No compatibility besides sex. * Fatigue. * He needed to "spread his wings and fly." * Lack of equality, age difference. * Lack of physical attraction to him. * Dishonesty, drugs and alcohol. * Booze. * Alcohol abuse. * Personal changes and his involvement in heavy drinking and drug abuse. * My unfaithfulness and chronic relapses into bad behaviour. Not proud of that fact. * The one and half years ended because of lack of love and detachment. * Lack of communication, indecisiveness. * Not knowing where he was. * Distance was too much for him. * Long distance, moving away for school. * He moved away and broke my heart. * Relocation — moved away and he didn't follow. * Longest monogamous: abuse towards me. Longest open: continues to present time. * There were a lot of trust issues; he would go through my personal stuff and lied to me about certain things. * In the monogamous relationship, he left for someone else. In the open relationship, we gradually drifted apart until there was nothing left to talk about. * He was cheating with another guy. * Falling for the ones we played with. * He moved in with one of the people he was cheating on me with. * Being possessive, jealousy. * Partner's dishonesty, cruel treatment. * Being with a parasite living on me. * Being abused. * Fell out of love. Fought a lot. * Possessive and manipulative. * Anger-management issues. * Cheated on me and an abusive relationship toward me. * Hate. * Our angst. * Medical issues, cheating, depression (on both ends). * Caught him in bed with another man three days before our one-year anniversary. * He was playing the field and might give me an STD. * I found out it was supposed to be an open relationship. * When the companionship wasn't there, I went chatting online, and he caught me (masked himself as someone else), eventually revealed himself. * Realized it's okay to be alone.

Endless variations
 
46% of respondents consider themselves somewhat hairy, and 52% wish they were naturally smooth. 38% are attracted to naturally smooth bodies, versus the 35% who like their partners a little hairy.
 
38% consider their bodies average, but 47% wish they were muscular; 34% are attracted to muscular partners. Almost 70% confess they probably wouldn’t be attracted to someone heavyset.
 
Brunettes make up the majority of respondents, at 41%. Fire-crotches make up the absolute minority, at 4%. Although most want to be brunette, 21% want black hair, and 30% prefer blond. Blond is the colour respondents find most desirable, at 34%. Silver foxes are, unfortunately, the least desirable.
 
77% are completely uninked, although 40% wish they had a few more tats, and almost 50% are attracted to guys with tattoos. 72% aren’t attracted to men who are totally covered — but they’ve probably never managed to get Rick Genest, aka Zombie Boy, near their beds.
 
I apparently don't have very high standards, ha ha ha. * You included "skinny-fat"? Really? Way to perpetuate that particular gay stupidity. No wonder gay men have body issues. * Fat dudes are gross. * I’m good with my body as it is. Attracted to a range of body types. * If the dude is hot, the package doesn't matter that much.  * None of these characteristics would stop me from being attracted to a guy. Sexy comes in all kinds of forms. * I would have sex with anyone. * There are no men I wouldn't have sex with. * Shouldn't these all have "all of the above" as an option? * I can be attracted to the local sport kid, the hot biker, the fireman or the geek at the coffee counter. * I’m smooth, but I get my genitals and ass waxed every six weeks or so. I wouldn't turn down anyone on body type, hair colour or tattoos. * My first boyfriend's nickname among friends was Chewbacca, so I suppose hair doesn't really get in the way for me. * Prefer hairy men with heavy beard stubble. * I'm salt and pepper and started at a very young age. Used to dye it, but a lot of guys think it's super-hot.




Full moon rising
 
Respondents describe the perfect ass as smooth, hairy, round, flat, fat, clean, dirty, big, small, tight, loose, celebrity, everyday, all sorts of oddly specific details, and, of course, the ubiquitous “bubble butt.”
 
Mine. * Perfectly bulbous with a nice dusting of dark hair. Round, tight, maybe with little blond fuzzy hairs, and perky enough to show through pants or shorts. * Cute, smooth and meaty. * David Beckham's. * Tight and hard. * Muscley, bubbly, with dimples. * Tight, clean and ready to go. * Bubble butt. I also like hairy asses with hairy cracks. A big beefy guy with a big, nicely formed hairy ass to fuck. * Bubble and bare. * Tight, hard, no fat, muscle, perfectly shaped cheeks, smooth. * Tight hole, round firm ass with some cushion  — not boney — attached to a slimmer waist to make the ass stand out. * Tight and welcoming. * Sitting on my face. * Hard melons. * Can clamp down perfectly on my cock to milk it. * Tight, bubble, flows well into legs. * Two big handfuls and a clean pucker that I can eat for hours. * Round and shaved with a hairless anus. * Rounded and with a gaping hole. The perfect ass is — well I’m an ass man, so any ass, but preferably large and round and ample. Hairy or smooth, though I prefer hairy. * The perfect ass is big, round and muscular with some bounce to it. The kind you can bounce a quarter on or place a tray of drinks on. * The perfect ass can be any size but not so big that it comes out at the sides. It's firm when walking but soft when grabbing. The size of the ass is in proportion to the rest of the body, especially the legs and hips. The perfect ass also is round — a half circle — and does not fold in at the bottom. * Round, soft and supple, but hard enough that you can bounce a quarter off it. Nicely groomed and eager to be eaten. * Nice good size and round, not too big, though. Just a little hair and a tight smooth hole perfect for rimming. * My cock inside it. * Smooth Taiwanese ass, with a hairless hole. * Douched . . . clean . . . and doesn’t smell like shit. * Muscular, smooth-to-mild hair, tanned or with tan lines. And a tight, hot-pink, perfectly round hole. * Firm, a little fuzz and a hole that likes to get pounded. * Big, deep muscle-butt. With some fur on it. * Oh, not enough room here. I dated a guy once who had the most beautiful ass that I would have been happy to spend the rest of my life just staring at. Literally, just a little food to eat each day and stare at his ass. * Tight, but not too tight. Smooth or moderately hairy. * Small, compact, firm, with slight traces of dark hair. * Firm bum you can see in jeans. I don't like a really tight hole. * Nice sexy, young bubble butt with a tight, shaved hole waiting for me. * Smooth, tight, firm and tiny. Cute and tiny is the best, but it has to have some structure. Small but nice cheeks. * Love those bubble butts at the gym — just want to reach out and rub them. * Tight, Asian. * Perky and well packaged. * Tight and peachy. * Nice bubble butt, looks like he's been swimming for a few years, looks to be around the age of 19. Firm and tight. I love ass. * Matt Leblanc, hairy so you can lick it. * Two hairy volleyballs. * Mmm, would have to be a soccer-ball-looking ass. Nice and round and plump. * Bubble butt on a Brazilian body builder. * Bubble butts. Good colouring and nibbleable. * I actually really like skinny guy asses. Not boney, but small and just a little padding. * Nice, round, bouncy. * Nice firm bubble butt. Zac Efron's. * All shapes and sizes, but two preferences are hairy, chunky man ass, and smooth, hairless twink ass. * Hockey players or ice skaters. * Asian, tiny, hairless, bubble butt with a tight, flawless hole. * Oh, the perfect ass is a bubble ass. Hairy or smooth, it doesn't matter. Bikini/Speedo tanlines, deep lower-back dimples and a tight, smooth pink buttonhole. * Round, plump, incredibly clean (ie freshly showered, no smell). * The perfect ass is a nice round, flat ass. * Smooth, firm, spreads easy when teased. * Stocky and firm. * Round, bubbly, able to take my cock, attached to a swimmer jock. Now I'm hard . . .* Smooth, no hair, really tight so I can barely get my cock in. * Nice muscular bubble butt, hairless in the crack with a clean musky scent and begging to be licked and nibbled on. * Smooth, full and pliant. * Hairy, with no sags.

Dickin’ around
 
Not that we’re all so superficial, but let’s talk dick sizes. Now, assuming everyone’s being honest, respondents’ dicks average approximately 6.5 inches, which is close to the universal average. The length respondents would like to have matches their idea of the perfect cock — at about eight inches. The biggest dick any respondent has ever encountered was a 15-inch monster, while a handful have encountered less-than-one-inchers. Bigger dicks aren’t necessarily more desirable, and some noted that they prefer girth over length.
 
I'm not a size queen. * When you’re a bottom, size really does matter. Small dicks are okay, but seven-plus is better. * It's not how big it is — it's how it is used. * I'm totally good with my dick. And so are the men I've shared it with. I prefer girth over length with other men. * Thickness is more important than length. * It’s not the length — it’s the thickness. * You should add a question or metric about girth or thickness. * I like thin small cocks, as it is less painful and easier to suck. * I fucked a guy I wasn't really attracted to because I thought his monster 12-inch cock would be a novelty. It wasn't. * The 14-inch cock was scary. The fucker thought he could shove it in my ass dry — no way, José! * We are talking actual sizing, not Grindr sizing, eh?
 
Fat cocks, skinny cocks, cocks that look like arms? Tough cocks, tiny cocks, even cocks that harm. The big, the small and the ugly all make an appearance as respondents report back on what they’ve seen.
 
It curved far inwards towards the dude's stomach, making it extremely difficult to blow or jack. I didn't really know what to do, so I just fucked him and let him take care of it. I'm sure someone's prostate appreciates him today. * Very tight muscles holding his cock tight against his belly. So tight it hurt him to move it, and the only way he could masturbate was by lying on a pillow because it hurt too much to wrap his hand around it. But my tongue did a pretty good job, with no pain. * One guy I dated had almost a corkscrew bend in his cock. I thought it was a little odd but gave it a go anyway, and it turned out to be lots of fun. * It reminded me of a hammerhead shark. I sucked it. * I met a guy with a huge lump on the side of it. It was a non-cancerous tumour, which he said women like because it creates a ribbed effect. Sorry — I wasn't interested. * It was the biggest I ever saw, a 13 incher. After a few seconds frozen in shock, I basically immediately dropped to my knees and nuzzled close. * One that was so long and thick, I didn't know whether I'd landed in heaven or was about to land in the hospital. * It was not only long but super thick. He was such a shy guy, it was surprising. I teased him and asked him why was he holding out on me. It wasn’t the best — felt like getting fucked by a table leg. * I once had sex with a straight man that took over an hour to loosen up my ass for it to fit in. His dick was about 11 inches long but so thick it was almost the size of an arm. That was painful sex. * It was 9.5 inches, was just too big to enjoy. * The 9.5-inch uncut cock of a trick. I was overwhelmed and tried to flee the scene (his place). He wanted to fuck me but settled for a hand job and a lick. * Huge uncut cock on a little guy. He would be thought to be monster hung even if he was six feet tall, but on his small frame it looked totally wild. Did him. * It was like the size of my arm. I sucked it, but that was it. * An 11-inch monster! It was huge. The size of my forearm and beautiful. Cocks like this do not come along often. I did what was necessary. I called in sick to work and got on my knees for the rest of the morning. * Disturbingly hot guy, with the smallest cock I've ever seen. Not weird looking, just sad that it was so small. I wanted to bottom and realized very quickly that I'd have a better time with a baby carrot. * Baby dick. Pretended nothing was wrong. * Too small; I flipped him over and fucked the shit outta him. * Nine inches, pylon-shaped, tight foreskin. Mercy-fucked him. * Pencil cock. Felt terribly sorry for the owner of it, giggled inside and pretended to enjoy the whole thing. * A small three-incher; felt sorry for the guy so gave him a great fuck. * Unsymmetrical, kind of malformed. Ran the other way. * FTM cock. Reacted well. * One guy had a nice-size cock, but it was hidden by tons of pubes. He obviously had never groomed. I just pretended not to care, but it kinda bothered me. * I saw the weirdest cock in a picture online. It was bent a little below the head, and it looked like a boomerang. My eyes went wide, and I clicked on his profile just to make sure it was real. Instantly, I deleted my trace. Unlike a boomerang, I didn't want that thing coming back to me. * One with a Prince Albert — had to be careful of my teeth. * It was a big, thick cock with a huge PA. It was startling at first, but I had a good time sucking on it and listening to it bang against my teeth. * Online hookup who failed to mention a piercing. A relatively recent one. That bled. Gross.
 
Turnabout is fair play: respondents reveal the most unusual reactions their cocks have elicited.
 
I haven't. Everyone loves my cock. Not to sound cocky . . . * Everyone loves my cock. It’s a Persian pastrami, dude. * One guy told me my cock looked like his dad’s. I didn’t ask. * Tearful adoration. Had sex with a hot telephone installer. He was straight, married and had had sex with many women in his life. Total butch hottie. Had always fantasized doing a guy and wanted to see a man's cock cum up close. He blew me. First time ever with a cock in his mouth. It was so intense and erotic to him when I came that he actually started to cry. Kind of a joyful-tears thing. It was highly erotic and kind of touching. I know I'd helped him find a way to fulfill a lifelong strategy and maybe open him up more. * Cannot think of one, other than straight guys who want to get serviced but don't want to see my dick — have been told to "put it away." * Someone saying it was big. It is not. I'm perfectly happy with my cock size and I don't have any issues with its size, but I definitely know it is not big. * A couple I was with kept saying my cock was big. Mine's perfectly standard in length and width with a slight curve to the left. I was bigger than both of them, though, and that was unfortunate. * It's weird when I get no reaction at all. I don't mind getting the reaction, but it's annoying when a guy goes overboard. This definitely falls under #bigcockproblems but the worst thing is a guy who can't stop talking about how big my dick is. Nothing turns me off more than feeling like the only thing he finds interesting about me is my dick. * I constantly get told that it's very thick and that I could easily do porn with it. Some get surprised and stare. * Fear. It’s really thick. * I had a guy say I was too small and he got off the bed, got dressed and left. * A young, slim guy kept saying how big it was as I was fucking him. It made me laugh and I lost my erection. * He whimpered with excitement. It was flattering but off-putting. * One guy said his ass was too small for my dick, and then made a strange sound that sounded like a seal barking when I fucked him. * The weirdest reaction I've had to my cock was the first time my drag mother showed me how to tuck. She just pushed everything back and suddenly my balls disappeared. When I got home and untucked, it felt like laying eggs, and from then on, I decided to never tuck again. Fluffy skirts BTW. * A super-bottom asked me if it was in yet — I had more than five inches already in. * I am five foot two; most guys are surprised that my cock is seven inches hard. * I've never had an unusual reaction to my cock. But I do often hear, "Your head is huge! Slurp." * "Why does it bend to the left? Did you sprain it when you were younger?" * "Holy shit that's big." * "Aww, but you are so tall." * "Wow, so small. Like a little boy. I likey." * “Does it ever get soft?” * "The slit is so big!" * "You shave down there?" * Cooing, “Aww, how cute.” * "Never seen a cock this size on a scrawny guy like you." Totally bolstered my ego as a 17-year-old kid. * I found a guy who loves my cock. He is a young, really good-looking guy. Which seems odd because I am more than twice his age, but he just seems to be in love with my little cock. * Dribbling with anticipation to get their mouth around it. * Someone was too excited to suck my uncut cock because of the possibility of smegma. * A guy was sucking me (it was clean) but suddenly vomited all over me. * This hot guy once told me I had a perfect dick. Made me smile. * Shock at how far I shot my load. It's been measured at 11 feet across a room * Someone said it was too hairy and I should shave. I responded, "I'd need to shave my entire body; otherwise I'd have a bald spot." * In conversation with a guy I just met, I told him that a guy once said that my cock hurt. The guy practically ran out of my place.

Turtlenecks and close-cropped
 
The chop: some want it, some crave it, some despise it, some guys are trying to fix it. 65% of respondents are cut, but that doesn’t mean they’re happy about it.
 
I hate it. It should be illegal. * I have foreskin envy. * I am foreskin crazy. * Soon to be cut. * Restoring foreskin now.
 
Circumcision is a divisive topic. While half of cut guys don’t have a preference, most of the ones who do prefer to be with others who’ve gone under the knife. As far as uncut guys go, even fewer of them care, but the ones who do prefer dicks with all the skin. In all cases, the consensus is that cleanliness is next to godliness.
 
Are you talking about sweaters? * As long as the skin slides back and I can get to the head, I am happy. * Easier to jerk, more sensitive. * Foreskin is the best sex toy. * Love docking. * There's so much more to play with. Hours of entertainment in and out of bed. * I love foreskin. Without foreskin the cock becomes boring to play with. When you play with an uncut cock, you can see the foreskin going back and forth; you can feel you are playing with something. When you play with cut cock, there is nothing there to feel, so it is very boring for me. * I just love cock. Nothing wrong with a clean foreskin. * Aesthetics and cleanliness. * As long as it's clean I'll play with it. * A clean cock is more important than being cut or uncut. * Uncut cocks taste better. * Dick cheese — yuck. * Love cut and love to play with and suck on cut. Dislike the smell of some uncut cocks that are not clean. Dislike the extra foreskin when there’s more than just a bit. * Cut or uncut serves the same purpose. * Cock is cock. Suppose I don't like the smell of uncut cocks sometimes and it's just easier to give head to a cut cock, but it doesn't really matter. * I just like both. * I care more about the brain that's attached to the dick that's fucking me. * It really doesn't matter when it's in my ass.

fab's Gay Sex Survey results Part I

fab's Gay Sex Survey results Part II

fab's Gay Sex Survey results Part III